An unexpected topic from me?

Everyone says "We learn from experience... in this reality." 

Whenever we do something, we will gain feedback. Positive or negative, back to itself...

We don't only learn from books and schools, we also learn from the social like observing and communicating. This makes us gain more knowledge in different aspects...

Why I say that's an unexpected topic from me? 

Whenever someone say "sex", the others will misunderstand or they will have something in their mind. It depends on individual thinking of course. Thus, many of us don't really talk about it or even mention it in our conversations with family or friends. That's because, we all care of others vision on us. But recently, I've learned something about this.

I got many cyber friends in IMVU, males and females. We usually chat about anything we want to. We feel free to do so because no one know who you are in there. Also, sometimes we will discuss about this topic - SEX or LOVE MAKING. We met many people from different countries met up in there, get a partner randomly and just do it in there. Some of them even video call each other to get more reality enjoyment rather than just 3D avatar. Of course, there are many people who just ordinary looking for someone to chat with and not for that stuff. With my friends in there, we usually met someone behaving that way and just ignore or leave. Then, we will discuss about it as it comes to our mind. It is already numb to us. Maybe that's what trained us to be open-minded.

Well, many of them often get new sex partner in there IMVU. They like the fresh feeling with every different partner. I guess this is how they behave - do and leave. They just want to fulfill their physiological needs in sex. But in my opinion with this topic SEX, actually I don't really think it as dirty, except for those who has the dirty mind with it. Actually it is just a way to increase the intimacy between couple, to develop their relationship with romance and love. It is also a chance to get to know each other deeper and well.

Please don't ever have dirty mind with this word SEX. 

Parents or the elders will always say this, "Don't ever do it with anyone or your love partner now, only after married." or "That's a bad or dirty behavior, only those not taught well will do it." Something like that... But nowadays, many youngsters don't really listen to that and being obedient. Many of them tried and enjoyed if you realized especially the western. But what I think is, couples can just do whatever they want to as long as they did precautions for what they want to do, exception for those who are well prepared have children. Just let it be natural and not mean to do it all the way, like hugging, kissing, touching or even love making maybe. That's a nice way to develop their loves as both of them are willing to. Is that too open-minded? Well, that's just what I think. Not to say encourage to do so, but it's fine to do so.

We're now adults and I think it's fine to discuss about it. It makes us learn lessons, isn't? 

I feel to share this because I've just discussed about this topic again recently with one of my cyber friend. And... we got the consensus on this topic. It's not only make me gained new knowledge, but I got a new friend too. 

Feel free to discuss about it sometimes... Share your opinions and express your feelings. ^^